Wolfskinder finds her past

Luise Quietsch holding a photography of herself as a child. (Photo: Monika Griebeler)
World War II
Lost and forgotten: German ‘wolf children’ in Lithuania

The Second World War ended in May 1945 – but not for the German “Wolfskinder,” or “wolf children.” On their own, they made their way from East Prussia to Lithuania, a decision they’ll never forget.

When Alfreda Pipiraite turned 18, she believed she’d made it. “But no, they said to me, ‘You German pig! You Hitlerist! Fascist!’ And so on,” she told DW. “It was particularly painful whenever a member of my family called me that.”

After all, Alfreda was really Luise, a German born in 1940 in the town of Schwesternhof in East Prussia, today in the Russian region of Kaliningrad. At the age of four she was adopted by a Lithuanian family as a so-called “Wolfskind,” or wolf child. During the chaotic final stages of the war, more than 5,000 children, according to historian Roth Leiserowitz, fled from East Prussia to Lithuania, looking for food as well as peace.

Such children were robbed by the Second World War of practically everything: their parents, their home, their language. It also robbed them of their past and what could have become of them.

The children, most of whom are believed to have been between four to twelve years old, stumbled away through forests, alone or in groups, some of them without shoes. Their bellies were bloated, their arms no more than twigs, their teeth beginning to rot. Sometimes they ate grass, at other times frogs – and often, simply nothing.

Fugitives on the run in East Prussia in February 2012. (Foto, Winter 1944.)

Sneaking away

At the beginning, Luise, together with her aunt and cousin, fled westward. On the way, the smouldering remains of burned-down trees pointed skywards like burning needles. Cadavers of horses lined the streets. Next to those were broken down carts and half-opened suitcases. Every now and then, Luise recalls of her flight in a covered cart, a teddy bear was seen peeking out of them.

‘I said “Oi, stop! I want to have that one,” she said. Her memory is fragmented. Much is forgotten, even more remains suppressed.

“Suddenly, we were overtaken by the Russians. I remember the women screaming terribly. They were being raped just a few steps away from us. I didn’t understand what was going on,” she says.

During a bomb attack she was separated from her aunt. A cook from the Red Army took the young girl along as it marched toward Lithuania. One day, during her life in the barracks there, she spotted a woman behind the fence who beckoned her with some candy.

“And I walked, walked, walked along the fence until I found a hole. Through it I escaped and got settled with the family. Yes, simply sneaking off, I say!”

Luise laughs a lot – out of joy but also out of embarrassment and shame. Against all odds, she got lucky. Her name was changed to Alfreda. The family organized Lithuanian papers for her and sent her to school.

“I always had everything. I was always dressed and never hungry. I was a very little girl – of course I needed a family,” she says. “Sometimes I even forgot I was someone else’s child.”

Old photos of Luise Quietsch and her Lithuanian „adoptive family“

Insulted and raped

Others had to fight longer for their survival. Roth Deske came to Lithuania for the first time at the age of 13, illegally, hitching a ride on a freight train. She was caught and kicked out – and immediately jumped onto the next train.

In Lithuania she begged for food and then took it with her back to East Prussia – again and again. When her mother died, she was left with her three siblings. Carrying the youngest one in her arms, she crossed the border again on foot. “He was only skin and bones, barely able to walk on his own,” she recounts in a book by journalist Sonya Winterberg entitled “We are the wolf children.”

Other “wolf children” swam across the Neman river or walked for kilometers on end. Those who made it to Lithuania and found a new family often had to work hard – on the field, in the stables, as a herder, messenger or maid – for their food and quarters. Only few were allowed to go to school, meaning that even today, many former wolf children are illiterate. Some were cursed at and beaten, Luise says.

“Some girls were even raped by those Lithuanian hosts. Later they were told, ‘Stay quiet or it will only get worse.’ And they’ve stayed quiet to this day.”

Old photograph of Luise Quietsch as a little girl

‘Are you nuts?’

In Lithuiania, the fate of the “Vokietukai,” or “little Germans,” has long been taboo. Shame over the country’s own behaviour as well as lingering prejudices are among the explanations for the absence of public discourse.

There’s also another reason. “Fear was what people were threatened with during the Soviet times,” says Lithuanian author Alvydas Šlepikas. “The whole family was under threat of being deported to a labor camp in Siberia.”

The goal, in other words, was to keep a low profile at all costs. It was for this reason, too, that many children were not allowed to attend school – and why they needed a new Lithuanian name. They also had to speak Lithuanian and renounce their German origins.

“That had always been a secret,” Luise recalls. “I knew I didn’t have any rights. I had to be quiet and obedient. And that’s how I was.”

For years, even her husband and daughter didn’t know of her German roots. “Before my marriage I told my husband: ‘I’m a German.’ And he said: ‘Ha ha! Are you nuts?’ And it was no longer a topic,” she says.

Fear of the ‘Russian sister’

Since Lithuania’s independence in 1990, fears have receded. The “wolf children” began looking for their families and writing letters to the Red Cross. That’s how Luise found her siblings again – 48 years after their separation. For other wolf children, it was more of a shot in the dark. Those who had come to Lithuania as little children had often all but forgotten their German past.

Luise Quietsch in front of her old family home in Schwesternhof, formerly East Prussia

Sometimes, too, German relatives were not keen to be reunited with their long-lost relatives. With some, there was a sense of fear of the “Russian sister” who might want to claim her share of the family inheritance.

Today, around 80 “wolf children” still live in Lithuania, at times in very poor circumstances. Their pension is minimal. Only since 2008 has the Lithuanian government supported “wolf children” with what is referred to as the “orphan bonus.” The monthly sum equates to roughly 50 euros ($66) – but only if the children can prove that they were born in East Prussia.

A jumping jack revived the language

As for hopes of a return to Germany, they were shattered by red tape, missing language skills and the lack of an education. The German government has taken a rather reluctant stance toward the “wolf children.”

[Wolf children] live under miserable circumstances,” said former parliamentarian Wolfgang von Stetten in 2007. “It is a disgrace for the German state that – despite all efforts – it hasn’t been possible to provide these people with a small extra pension.”

Luise Quietsch in front of the Vilnius cathedral

It’s something that Luise doesn’t have to worry about. She was able to go to university and has always earned enough money. Today, she and her husband live in the city of Vilnius. Their living room is stacked with books – German ones, too.

Luise rediscovered the language at the beginning of the 1990s, rather by accident. When passing by a toy store, the German word for jumping jack – Hampelmann – flashed before her mind.

“I wondered, ‘How do I know that?’ I was really surprised myself, as I though I’d forgotten everything. And then – I started learning German again.”

“Luise” has returned in Lithuania – and Alfreda, at last, could leave.

As part of the “Nahaufnahme” (“Close-up”) project, DW journalist Monika Griebeler has been a guest writer for the Lithuanian news portal delfi.lt. It’s a project by the Goethe-Institute whereby journalists from Germany and other European countries swap places for a number of weeks. In return, Lithuanian journalist Vytenė Stašaitytė visited Deutsche Welle during December 2012.

Source:
Deutsche Welle, Top Stories, 09.05.2013
www.dw.de/lost-and-forgotten-german-wolf-children-in-lithuania/a-16798830


Die Kinder Der Flucht – Wolfskinder – Ostpreußen – 2 Weltkrieg
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A German family’s treasures are found

German man who fled Czechoslovakia during Second World War returns to his family home after 70 years and discovers the possessions his father hid in the roof are still there

  • Rudi Schlattner, 83, and his family left Czechoslovakia after World War II
  • His father hid some of their possessions in the roof of their house
  • 70 years on, Mr Schlattner returned to his old family house and found them
  • The long lost treasures are now in a local museum in Usti nad Labem
  • Mr Schlattner and his family left after President Bene’s issued his ‘final solution of the German question’

Rudi Schlattner was forced to flee the family home as part of a mass expulsion of Germans from Czechoslovakia after President Edvard Benes ordered the ‘final solution of the German question’ by evicting all ethnic Germans from the country.

After knocking on the wooden panels in the loft, Mr Schlattner found a small piece of string hanging from one of the panels. When he pulled it, a set of shelves were revealed, filled with the long lost secret possessions.

Mr Schlattner’s lost treasures will now be held in a museum in the town of Usti nad Labem as the Czech government’s rules dictate that all German property left behind is now owned by the state.

Thrilled: Rudi Schlattner was forced to flee the family home as part of a mass expulsion of Germans from Czechoslovakia

Thrilled: Rudi Schlattner was forced to flee the family home as part of a mass expulsion of Germans from Czechoslovakia

Now in his 80s, Rudi contacted municipal officials in the village of Libouch in north-western Czech Republic who now use the family home as a kindergarten.

The house had undergone roof refurbishments, leading to concerns that the secret treasure might not still be hidden in the roof.

But Rudi’s father had done such a good job of hiding it, that nobody had discovered them.

He said: ‘My father built the villa in 1928 and 1929. He always thought that one day we would return and get it back.’

He was accompanied on the visit to the building by employees of a museum in the nearby town of Usti nad Labem together with the mayor of Libouch, manager of the kindergarten, archaeologist and employees of the museum

The house had undergone roof refurbishments, leading to concerns that the secret treasures might not still be hidden in the roofThe house had undergone roof refurbishments, leading to concerns that the secret treasures might not still be hidden in the roof
After knocking on the wooden panels in the loft, Mr Schlattner found a small piece of string hanging from one of the panels. When he pulled it, a set of shelves were revealed, containing the long lost secret possessionsAfter knocking on the wooden panels in the loft, Mr Schlattner found a small piece of string hanging from one of the panels. When he pulled it, a set of shelves were revealed, containing the long lost secret possessions
Now in his 80s, Rudi contacted municipal officials in the village of Libouch in north-western Czech Republic who now use the family home as a kindergartenNow in his 80s, Rudi contacted municipal officials in the village of Libouch in north-western Czech Republic who now use the family home as a kindergarten
Lost wonders: Mr Schlattner is reportedly not bitter over the fact that his family's treasures cannot be returned to him and promised to help with identification of the objects, although his health is not good

Lost wonders: Mr Schlattner is reportedly not bitter over the fact that his family’s treasures cannot be returned to him and promised to help with identification of the objects, although his health is not good

New home: Mr Schlattner’s lost treasures will now be held in a museum in the town of Usti nad Labem as the Czech government’s rules dictate that all German property left behind is now owned by the state
Some of unwrapped objects included skis, hats, clothes-hangers, newspapers and paintings by Josef Stegl who also lived in the house during WWII.
Some of unwrapped objects included skis, hats, clothes-hangers, newspapers and paintings by Josef Stegl who also lived in the house during WWII.

After 70 years it was hard for him to find the exact hiding place, but the 70 packages were eventually found under the roof.

Museum assigner Tomas Okurka told Czech daily newspaper Blesk: ‘Mr Schlattner was tapping the roof boards with a small hammer. All of them had the same sound. Then he tried to find a string which was supposed to detach the boards which was a system set up by his father.

‘He told his son that he would only have to pull the string in order to detach the boards and suddenly he found the string, and when he pulled it two boards detached and the shelter full of objects untouched for 70 years appeared.

‘It took too long and we thought that the shelter had perhaps been discovered and the items removed during the roof reconstruction and we would not find anything. But suddenly he found the string.’

He added: ‘The packages were very skilfully hidden in the vault of a skylight. It was incredible how many things fitted in such a small space. It took more than one hour until we put everything out.’

There were some packages wrapped in brown paper and some unwrapped objects such as skis, hats, clothes-hangers, newspapers and paintings by Josef Stegl who also lived in the house during World War II.

Packed: The inside the of the roof was filled with many packages from the family's lost home
Packed: The inside the of the roof was filled with many packages from the family’s lost home
Many of the objects were related to Mr Schlattner's childhood, after he left the country aged 13
Many of the objects were related to Mr Schlattner’s childhood, after he left the country aged 13
Historic: Although the objects may not hold considerable value, they represent an invaluable insight into family life in the 1940s
Historic: Although the objects may not hold considerable value, they represent an invaluable insight into family life in the 1940s
Speacial: A selection of objects found secretly concealed behind the roofing planks in the house

Speacial: A selection of objects found secretly concealed behind the roofing planks in the house

Mr Okurka said: ‘We were surprised that so many ordinary things were hidden there. Thanks to the circumstances these objects have a very high historical value.’

Because when the Germans were expelled all of their property was also confiscated, the items in the attic remain under the ownership of the Czech government.

All the packages were taken to a museum in the town of Usti nad Labem where they have been unpacked, analyzed and filed.

So far several packages have been unpacked. Some umbrellas, hats, badges, paper weights, paintings, pens, school tables, unpacked cigarettes, socks, books, sewing kits and much more. Everything was in very good condition according to the historians.

Manager of the museum Vaclav Houfek said: ‘Such a complete finding of objects hidden by German citizens after the war is very rare in this region.’

Because they are the property of the Czech Republic their previous owner cannot claim them back. It is not yet been decided which institution will take the objects.

Mr Schlattner is reportedly not bitter over the fact that his family’s treasures cannot be returned to him and promised to help with identification of the objects, although his health is not good.

The destruction of World War II had caused enormous hatred in Czechoslovakia of its ethnic German population, and the government.

Thousands died during the forced expulsions of 1.6 million ethnic Germans their homes and into the American zone West Germany. These were the fortunate ones, and a further 800,000 were sent to the Soviet zone.

Rudi and his family were among those that ended up in the American zone, and before they left they had time to hide their property in the attic of the family home.

He said ‘We thought we would one day return, and that would find a property there.’

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3192350/German-man-fled-Czechoslovakia-Second-World-War-returns-family-home-70-years-discovers-possessions-father-hid-roof-there.html#ixzz3isry0ukK
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An Honor Received

There have been more people than I can list who have believed in me throughout the filming of Millions Cried…NO One Listened. The German World Alliance organization holds a number of these people on their board. Many of them attended the conferences as they followed the progress of my research that turned into a six film series. It’s been two years since the series was released so the surprise of receiving this award is incredible.

Every time I look at this plaque I smile with humility and gratefulness.

An Honorary Award from The German World Aliance

An Honorary Award from The German World Aliance

Thank you to all the members of The German World Alliance for this honor and the never-ending support.

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I am looking to start a discussion forum for those who have filed for restitution from the Republic of Serbia. This could be in English or German. We could share successes, problems, road blocks, heart aches, and advice which would benefit all involved. I have had my own difficulties and I feel that talking to those who might share my experiences would be very helpful. We are not, and should not, be alone in this endeavor.

  • Rita Schiwanowitsch Please consider joining me. It there is an interest…. I will send details as to where we can do this in a smaller group. I could use advice and a shoulder to cry on.
  • Elaine C. Tillinger My parents decided not to seek Restitution. They are nearly 80 years old and don’t want to go through the trouble and stress. I do know some DS families that are going for it.
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  • Rita Schiwanowitsch Since the deadline for filing is already past…. I am trying to put together a support group for those who already have. So we can help each other. Please, no talk about “should I… or shouldn’t I” Those who have filed have already been down that road.

  • Elaine C. Tillinger I’m not discouraging anyone from filing for Restitution. You asked, I responded. Not everyone wants to go through the process. I wish everyone luck who is trying to get Restitution for their tragic losses. Done.
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  • Rita Schiwanowitsch Thank you Elaine…. It has been a very heartbreaking process.
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The Fight Continues!

It was set, an art exhibition of five German refugees along with Five Bosian and Five Toosies. A portrait of these brave, strong people who survived their countries, homes and families being pulled apart. A short portion of their story being played in the background in hopes to educate us on what we hope we never have to live through. This was an honor for me on many levels. Many people learning about these groups that suffered so much. These survivors opened their pain to us, a pain we will never understand. So many stories all so different yet all the same. Running from death and trying to hold everything together in the process.

This exhibit was going to held at Washington University for a graduate student who wanted to something more then paint a portrait. This student wanted to be a part of teaching about the unknown, the pain that is hidden in so many people we see in our stores, businesses and neighborhoods. As our work progressed the semester came to and end. It was time for his review. It was time for the judgement of the professors teaching students how to think and feel and follow their hearts and guts in their work. This young man who had reached the point of being able to make a difference was distroyed in a matter of fifteen minutes. Being told he was taking advantage of the refugees, the idea wasn’t creative enough, they would not except it.

Now these refugees that trusted us and worked with us, opened their homes to us and tore the scabs off of painful old wounds suffer for not. Memories they never wanted to relive have once again been tossed away. This happened because of a few people who didn’t take the time to learn who these people are or what they stand for among us today.

When will people learn, no matter what degree, however many years of education or prestege within their circles they have, it doesn’t give them the power to tell their students how to think? How do they give themselves the righttousness to simply excuse the people who reopened their past and gave a part of themselves to the public they had hidden all these years? All because a few teachers said no.

Do the Dead Have Rights?

Mass graves are scattered across Eastern Europe, unmarked and unrecognized.  Whole cemeteries lie silently under parking lots and streets after being razed and paved over.  Gravestones have been defaced in attempt to erase “German” names from stone.

After the 1945 Potsdam Agreement a “population transfer” of over 12 million Germans was undertaken in what has now become recognized as the largest forced expulsion in human history.  The state-sponsored brutality that ensued resulted in mass murder, indiscriminant killing and the vacating of entire towns.  In the aftermath lay the silent remains of the dead, victims of the genocide and ethnic cleansing that occurred.

What should become of these sacred grounds?  Survivors of this era, as well as the later generations, now travel from near and faraway lands to tend to their ancestors’ graves if they can be identified.  For some the intentional eradication has rendered the areas inaccessible beneath layers of concrete.  And for others the attempts to deny that Germans ever existed in those areas make it impossible to tell whose grave is whose.

Many modern-day governments have declined to protect, recognize and restore these burial grounds, perpetuating the myth of “collective guilt” and in an attempt to change the past.  Ultimately we are all challenged to ask ourselves:

  • How does this desecration and denial of reality serve history?
  • Is there not a certain degree of humanity and decency that is justified for everyone’s ancestors?

The peoples of these areas may be gone – dead or expelled – but their memories remain.  And our actions will determine whether the world learns and grows, or buries its head in the sand yet once again.

A Ground Breaking Story

The story of the groundbreaking – “Ice Breaker Book”

In the book „Zemlja u Koferu“ by Nenad Novac Stefanovic, published 2007 in Serbian language (English translation “Homeland in a Suitcase – A Journey” containing destinies of Danube-Swabians living now in the USA) Stefanovic writes in short in the preface the story how the epithet “The IcebreakerBook ” A PEOPLE ON THE DANUBE  originated.

This ground breaking book also cut through the unwritten ban on erecting memorials for the German minority victims of the communist terror. In a fortunate turn of events, after the book promotion in Zrenjanin library I met the representatives of the local government. At the time the power in Zrenjanin was in the hands of the Democratic Party. I asked them if they would authorize erecting a memorial in the village camp Knićanin for the 11,000 Danube Swabian victims, mainly children and the elderly. They agreed and delivered on their promise.

I try not to over emphasize the influence of the book, but I have to mention a literary evening held in Zrenjanin library. I am convinced that its atmosphere influenced the representatives of the local government who attended the book promotion, unaware about the events which were to ensue.

A hall in the loft of the library is packed. The people who couldn’t get seats are standing in passages and doorways. Everyone is listening in complete silence. The evening is hosted by Dušan Jakovljev. Following the introduction and comments I read from the book. Somebody is crying. Another woman is crying. Afterwards I wait for the questions from the audience. Silence. No questions. Their faces are tense. I think: after so many stirred emotions and the attentive listening – there must be questions. I wait in silence. A piece of paper reaches me: “ Please, can we take a break.”

During the break, the lady who was crying approaches me and says:

– He was in the audience.

– Who is he?!

– A guard from the camp Knićanin. We, the inmates, recognized him.

There are around ten of us here…

The fear was unfounded; the camp guard didn’t yield any power any more. He was a pensioner, like his former prisoners. The fear which silenced the women in the audience was the result of the awakened trauma. For they lived close to each other, in the same neighborhood, both the fear and the guard.

The second part of the literary evening lasted a long time. People talked without interruptions, with breaks in their voices. The retired camp guard left during the intermission.

At the end the memorial in Knićanin took shape of tin boards with water pipes bases because the project was aided by the Belgrade water board, Dragan Lajšić and Aleksandar Hajder. The boards were large enough to accommodate the text written in two languages: “Here rest our fellow citizens of German descent, who died of hunger, diseases and cold in the camp “Knićanin” between 1945 – 1946. May they rest in peace. The Society for the Serbian-German co-operation, Belgrade 1998.“ On the other, identical board, placed by the graveyard outside the village, only the year was changed: 1946 -1948. The president of the Society at the time was Germanics Professor Zoran Žiletić. “The Society for the Serbian-German co-operation, Belgrade 1998.“

The boards were a sign that the relationship towards the official version of the history is changing. After their erection it was much easier to establish contacts between the ones who moved in and those who left. They started exchanging visits: for example, Lorenz Baron visited Srboljub Stojković and vice versa. In the former village-camp Knićanin a mixed Serbian-German society for the monument preservation was established, the German cemetery chapel was refurbished and there are regular shared lunches following commemorations…

Some memorials have been erected in other locations and more are planned – but the ground has been broken. A people on the Danube was a small but persistent contributor to the change.

 

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Away too long

Months have passed since I’ve written to everyone and for this I am sorry.

Life does keep happening even if you don’t want it to. There’s an old saying that holds true “There’s one thing that will never change and that is, there will always be change.”

So as my personal life changes so does the life of my research into the world of the ethnic Germans from Eastern Europe.

What I’ve noticed more and more through the last few months is the number of 20 somethings that have been writing me. So many of the grandchildren of this lost history want some answers and they’re writing to me to get them. Answers of what happen as a whole I’m able to give them, but the answers they’re looking for as to what happen to their grandparents or great grandparents are within their families memories. The stories that are passed down from one generation to another will answer these questions yet so many stories are being held back.

It’s time to tell these lost, hidden, but hopefully not forgotten stories to your children and grandchildren. Please gather your family together and tell them what you know about this time in history. Write your story down and send it in a letter. Share your story with this site so many more will learn about the ethnic German Genocide.